Managing Editor
A few years ago, I gave some thought to the idea of creating a bucket list of tasks for me left to do, accomplish and experience before checking out of the earthly plane of existence.
But limited financial resources and the demands of everyday life, such as paying the mortgage, the cost of supplying our home with necessities such as heat and electricity, along with rising expenses for just about everything, sort of made creating a bucket list for my golden retirement years nothing more than a pipe dream.
Recently I saw a magazine article offering advice that instead of writing a list of things or goals you hope to achieve in the future, it suggested compiling a “reverse bucket list” which could serve as a practical reminder of what you've already accomplished in life. The article mentions examining your life to this point and asking yourself, "What are the things I'm grateful for?" and "What are the boxes that I've already checked off during my time on Earth?"
The point of the magazine article is that taking stock of what I've done so far in life can assist in reminding me what I'm capable of. It says that creating a “reverse bucket list” can be a mechanism to boost personal satisfaction by listing things I have already accomplished and may have overcome in the past.
While I may never travel to visit the Great Wall of China, play in baseball’s World Series, ride across Europe on the Orient Express, or go for a hike in Patagonia, my life has been meaningful and filled with experiences, accomplishments and overcoming obstacles that I wouldn’t trade for anything.
Here’s a small sample of what I would include on my own Reverse Bucket List:
In September 1971, I attended a gathering of freshman students at New Mexico Highlands University, and the speaker that day told us to look around at the audience and said the fact was that less than half of these freshmen students would still be there four years later at graduation ceremonies. I didn’t know it at the time, but I was one of those casualties. Transferring to another college after getting married and facing the realities of rent, utility bills, and health insurance took its toll and academics got pushed aside for a while. I did eventually return to college, but I was in my 30s and my priorities had changed. I was determined to finish college and increase my earning potential. So, I would place obtaining a Bachelor of Arts degree in journalism from the University of New Mexico some 17 years after I started college among my greatest achievements.
During my military service, I laid the groundwork for much of my professional success. At the age of 29, I was interviewing newsmakers and leading a 40-page weekly newspaper, supervising reporters and coverage, designing pages, writing headlines and photo captions. It was invaluable experience that continues to serve me to this very day. Along the way, I was honored as the first-ever recipient to win consecutive “Tactical Air Command Journalist of the Year” honors in 1983 and 1984. I also received the Air Force Commendation Medal for my service at the Pentagon in Washington, D.C. So, I would add my time in the U.S. Air Force to my list of personal accomplishments.
I have been blessed to have had three of the best dogs ever during my lifetime. Sundance was part German Shepherd and Hunter was part Pembroke Welsh Corgi. They each had wonderful personalities that endeared them to our family. The current dog, Fancy, is part lab and other parts unknown. She is devotedly loyal and persistent in wanting to go for walks or to swipe the toilet paper and rip it the shreds if someone inadvertently leaves the bathroom door open. So, I must include being the human associated with three great dogs on my list of awesome experiences.
As I went through life, I wondered what it would be like if I ever received a devastating health diagnosis. Sure enough, I had my answer in 1998 when at the age of 45, I was informed by a surgeon that I had a rare form of cancer. Six months of chemotherapy and several surgeries later, I eventually emerged cancer-free and was able to resume my life. But that battle changed me and things I had prioritized no longer mattered. So, I’d say beating and overcoming a bout with cancer would be a must on my list of deserving achievements.
Lastly, my list of accomplishments would not be complete without mentioning marrying my wife, Nancy. When she came into my life, life changed radically for me. I became a stepfather to three wonderful young men. I took vacations to Vermont, San Francisco and North Carolina. I became both a homeowner and a grandparent. I got to attend a baseball game at Camden Yards in Baltimore. I learned to cook and how to manage monthly household expenses. I also am grateful for marrying the kindest, funniest and best partner to go through life with. So having a great marriage is on the list of my accomplishments too.
My “Reverse Bucket List” certainly does overflow. <






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